Recently, my very close friend brought up a topic that led to a serious argument. He asked me a question and the question became the foundation for our argument.

He asked me, ‘if I understand the main reason why young couples quarrel often.’ I told him that my best guess may be because they are having something bothering them.

But, what shocked me was my friend’s statement. His answer is still what I can’t understand. The response he gave me was that ‘young couples often have misunderstanding because they want to understand each other.’

I honestly can’t interpret how misunderstanding brings understanding between two people. While I am still seeing this as a myth rather than a law, can you share more from your experience?

I will love to hear your view on this matter.